So, what does any of this matter? Well, I find it rather comforting to know that I do not have to try and be someone I am not or even bring up certain conversation topics to impress someone. They are either already impressed or not and nothing I purposefully do will change that. Instead, I can be at peace knowing who I am in Christ and that Christ is ultimately in control, even over these matters. Most often in the past I would get really anxious, feeling like there were certain things I had to do so that the guy would like me. Now, the anxiety is replaced with peace. (Nervousness on the other hand remains.) I want to encourage you to find your identity in Christ and learn to be confident in who God made you to be. Do not worry about impressing other people, God will take care of that for you. :)