It’s no different with Jesus. If he is really our boyfriend than we should not seek another. If we are really committed to Jesus, than we will work on our relationship with Him instead of trying to find another to replace Him. If you were married would you not do everything you could to save the marriage? And not just save it but, make it grow stronger? Guess what? Jesus is not just our boyfriend; he is more. He is our bridegroom and we are His bride waiting patiently for Him and the wedding day. So let us work out our relationship with Him. Let us take it from dysfunctional to functional, so that He may be glorified in all the earth.
Relationships are hard and take work. We shouldn’t expect it to be easier with Jesus in this regard. We must take the time to spend with Him and learn about him in His word. We must seek him and wait quietly upon him. In the end all the work put into the relationship will be worth it and we will find that it is far more rewarding than any other relationship.